The man’s positivity…

A husband is not just a relation it is he who stands like a pillar for his girl..it is only by his support a women guides rest of her family in a peaceful path..if a husband (i.e) the pillar collapse then the whole family will be shattered…!! 

There is a famous saying behind every successfull men there is a women , i do agree with it but BEHIND EVERY SUCCESSFULL RELATIONSHIP AND A PEACEFULL FAMILY THERE IS A MAN..!! HIS SILENT SACRFICES, HIDDEN PAINS AND ABSOLUTE ADJUTMENTS…!!

If a boy doesn’t support a girl in the relationship, however strong the girl is somehow the relationship’s base will be shaken…if a boy thinks he will build the relationship up above the sky.. but, if he thinks to collapse, he’ll dump it deep inside the ground..it is not that girls are incapable but a BOY’s support for a girl will make wonders..!!

SAM’s support for me had wonders in my life..To me sam holding my hand itself is a great support and i love that…!! whenever he hold my hands all my stress , depression and pain runs away like a theif running away from getting cought..!! That too when he holds my hand tight a positive love vibration will pass all over my body, automatically all my fear will run and jump out of my window pane…!! Funny aint it !! But it’s true.. From sam’s support only i learnt the positivity of a male’s support for a girl…and you are lucky if you get such a support..!!!

                                                              – SUJA SAM.

                   

To all those who comment about a girl’s dressing…

Dear nehibours, ladies and men who comment bad about a girl’s dressing if she wears a modern costume, jean and a top especially!! iam really bound to say u this..Dress is just a dress that covers are skin and thats it… Our character doesn’t depened on what kind of dresses we wear..  clothes are ment only to hide the flesh…what ever clothe we wear it should cover our flesh and thats more than enough… Iam not against sarees but dear aunties those transparent sarees you people wear our so so transparent like a window mirror and it shows all your tressures that has to be hidden and uncle’s your so called shorts are so short than it has to be.. please take a note of that before commenting our fully covered dressing…same way i dont support girls who wear jean n top or any dressing so tight that reveals your body’s beauty quite awkwardly… whatever the costume we wear it should suit us and more than that we should feel comfortable about that… if anybody dont like a girl’s dressing just close your eyes and walk away dont comment bad about us.. dont judge a book by its cover…!!! All those girls who show their skin and dress up modernly are not prostitutes…sameway all those girls who doesnt reveal their skin and wear only a trafitional costumes arent SITA’s….!! Stop commenting and start to grow up please..!!

Those places where u accompained me..

Ohh my god how strong my love is… How strong it had its impact on me.. i really felt my love’s impact only when i went to the places alone , where once we joined our hands togather walked and played like an year old kid who is amused to see new things…those seashores that sang us love rhythem ones now reminded me sad notes…!! Onces the same place where we noted lovers and happy people, that very same place showed me a different scenes… thrown empty bottles, small boats sailing without any person, a lonely old man sleeping on the sand who had been watched by thousand eyes, empty boats, vendors with sad faces and a fading sun…Everything was sad to me there.. but our daughters were really happy and i was amused at their so happy faces..!! And thats the point i realized everything there in the beach was the same and iam the person who was disturbed by my sad heart which reminded me of my love’s absences .. my SAM‘s absence… Without you and your love my heart , eyes and mind couldnt see anything happy SAM… This is not just words this is my true EXPERIENCE…LOVE YOU SAM..

To all those people who ask my children’s gender…

Whenever i’m out with my childrens everybody asks about my children’s gender… I happily reply them both my children’s are GIRL’S… But their awkward replies irritate me a lot… They either say what both are girls !! Oh i really feel sorry for you..achoo god has no grace for u , how your gonna marry these too girls and all such idiotic questions and replies..!! The sad part is these questions are mostly asked by womens… To all those disgusting people especially ladies.. Don’t you think before saying those words and feeling sorry for baby’s gender, if it’s a girl… You are a girl too..sometimes i even doubt about you people’s gender..!! You people always want every married girl to have a boy baby.. if every single women gives birth to a boy baby in the future to whom you’ll marry your son’s too?… I think you’ll opt for a gender change surgery .. and sameway how will your generation grow , how will you have a grandchildren? Oh shit i’m an idiot you’ll go for a testtube babies right!! And how dare you people question to all mother’s of girls about our daughters marraige when they are so young kids.. there are lot more things for our girls before marraige and we better than you people have much more concern for our daughter’s … Please shut your nasty mouths and plan for your future budgets for test tube babies n gender changing surgeries… and to all the male dominants over here who also want only boy baby.. whom will you call as a mother, sister n all.. who will cook for you n take care of your homes..and finally to whom will you show your physical love??? Please grow up people for godsake.. And finally i personally heared of a saying or maybe a belief that people who make sins are not bleassed with a boy baby and they give birth only to girls..!! To all those nuts , please stop your sayings keep your bullshit falls beliefs within yourself.. if parents of girl childrens are sinners we don’t specially i don’t mind to be a sinner not once but even 10,000 times.. Girl babies are not a bane they are boon to us..angels from the god given straight to us..and we are really proud to be the mother of girl baby’s..!!! Iam not against boy babies but girl babies are not garbagges…!! They are right equal to boys…!! Iam Proud to be a mother of two girls…!!